2/4 12:06 Noon. Working on Jon Mills (2005, 2011). A lengthy one,
and a short one. How can a lengthy one avoid being imposing? Good lesson. When
you have >5 points to say, split them in 2 essays. When you have <1 point
to say, write an authoritative textbook.
2/4 12:33 Noon. Large Group
Psychology (Vamik Volkan) (well, LARGE, very very LARGE) vs. Group self (Heinz
Kohut) (see Walter Stone, 2009, Chap 2, of course, Stone is not talking about
"LARGE" group here).
2/4 2:50 PM. Jay Greenberg
(2013), interesting.
2/4 8:59 PM. Donna Orange
(2010) Jessica Benjamin (2010). Debate about mutual recognition.
My conclusion:
Men are not equal, as the winners like to claim to be.
Intersubjectivity cannot be taken for
granted. It is an end result of long hard-won achievement, in any relationship.
Hegel, apparently, is
not Winnicott.
Philosophical
acrobatics, obviously, is not therapy.
Intersubjectivity between two strong
and capable adults, is not the same, as the parent-child or therapist-patient
dyad.
The relationals are more adult-like,
less parent-like, less masochistic, than the self psychologists.
The
relationals need to be screwed up more, to see the infantile needs of their patients.
The
self psychologists need to learn to let go, and not to infantilize their
patients, at least not longer than necessary.
They
both need to learn to more keenly sense the developmental stage and its accompaning needs in their
patients, and the intersubjective task to facilitate
the maturational process accordingly. (a la Winnicott’s “The Maturational
Processes and the Facilitating Environment”)
2/5
5:02 AM. 臘月逐漸親近人
this explains mutual recognition, doesn't it?
2/5
6:34 AM. Henry Schwartz (2012) Intersubjectivity and Dialecticism. Apparently
he does not consider himself a hardcore relational, and is groping his way
forward, via dialecticism.
2/5
8:03 AM. Sabert Basescu: Selected Papers on Human Nature and
Psychoanalysis (Relational Perspectives Book Series), ed. by George Goldstein, Helen Golden, Routledge,
2011 (kindle 2012)
(book
review by Paul Gordon) https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B5viXpvvYMYEQlNiR01MUFVBWHc/view?usp=sharing
2/5 8:11 PM. Jack Reacher used to say, "Shit happens, get over it." But we sadly know, sometimes we won't be able to get over it. That was what happened to Sabe in May, 2006, in central park, NY.
2/6 3:03 AM. mutual vulnerability, how to define it? 6/29 SUD ---> Co-morbidities of SUD: physical, psychiatric, pregnancy, adolescent
2/7 7:44 AM. FIN.
2/5 8:11 PM. Jack Reacher used to say, "Shit happens, get over it." But we sadly know, sometimes we won't be able to get over it. That was what happened to Sabe in May, 2006, in central park, NY.
2/6 3:03 AM. mutual vulnerability, how to define it? 6/29 SUD ---> Co-morbidities of SUD: physical, psychiatric, pregnancy, adolescent
2/7 7:44 AM. FIN.
