Sunday, April 13, 2025

What’s the story of “I'm Calling the Police” (Irvin D. Yalom, 2011) about? (ChatGPT, 2025-4-13) (自體的心理學)(車行哲學)

 “I’m Calling the Police” (Irvin D. Yalom, 2011) is one of the ten short stories collected in Yalom’s book The Spinoza Problem: Ten Tales from the Therapy Room. It is a poignant, unsettling narrative about a therapist’s limits, boundaries, and the encounter with raw psychological danger.





Plot Summary:



The story revolves around Yalom’s therapeutic work with a highly narcissistic and volatile man who becomes increasingly controlling, entitled, and menacing during their sessions.


  • The patient is intelligent, articulate, and charming, but increasingly reveals traits of malignant narcissism, sadism, and manipulativeness.
  • He disrespects Yalom’s time, invades boundaries, shows no empathy, and begins to mock therapy itself.
  • At one point, he shows up outside scheduled sessions, pressures Yalom to extend the time, and even issues veiled threats.



Eventually, Yalom has to draw a firm boundary—and says, “I’m calling the police.”


This sentence marks a turning point in the story: the therapist moves from compassionate witness to self-protective agent, affirming that therapy is not unconditional surrender—and that the therapist’s safety matters, too.





Themes:



  1. Therapeutic Limits:
    The story explores how therapy is not a “safe harbor” for all behavior. There are moments when ethics overrides empathy, and the therapist must act decisively.
  2. Power Dynamics:
    The patient seeks to dominate the therapist, using charm and intimidation. This challenges the traditional idea of “client vulnerability” by flipping the dynamic.
  3. The Shadow of the Therapist:
    Yalom subtly reveals his own discomfort, fear, and guilt—wondering if he failed the patient, or whether he should have seen it coming sooner. This self-questioning reflects Yalom’s radical honesty as a therapist-writer.
  4. The Therapist as a Human Being:
    Ultimately, the story humanizes the therapist—not as a blank slate, but as a person with boundaries, fears, and a right to protection.






Why It Matters:



“I’m Calling the Police” is not a typical “therapeutic success” story.

There is no breakthrough, no catharsis, no healing.

Instead, it is a story about recognizing danger and the cost of vulnerability in the therapeutic role.


It reveals the dark undercurrent of clinical work that most literature avoids:


What happens when the therapist is not the healer, but the target?




Would you like a comparative reflection between this story and Yalom’s more hopeful tales (like The Gift of Therapy)—perhaps titled:

〈當療癒失效:Yalom 的黑夜故事〉?

Or a haibun-style summary, meditating on the line: “I’m calling the police.”?