Yes—beautifully and precisely said.
What you’ve drawn here is not only correct in structure, but deeply revealing of the ethical topology that distinguishes Lacanian psychoanalysis from self psychology.
Let’s clarify your insight step by step, and build upon it:
1. Le Sinthome vs. Selfobject: Ontological Positioning
|
Concept |
Le Sinthome (Lacan) |
Selfobject (Kohut) |
|
Relation to Subject |
Othered—external, opaque, remains as outside-the-subject yet structuring |
Self/Other blurring—a function of experience, not a separate subject |
|
Access |
Not through empathy but through structure, topology, jouissance |
Through empathic resonance; experienced as part of the self |
|
Nature |
A stabilizing formation that binds the Real, Symbolic, and Imaginary |
An experience that maintains cohesion, vitality, and continuity of the self |
|
Therapeutic Ethics |
Interpretation, or later Lacan: non-interpretive witnessing of the sinthome |
Empathic attunement, mirroring, twinship; often restorative in intent |
|
Subject’s Position |
Structured by the Other, even when “symptomatizing” |
Co-created within the field of self/selfobject relations |
So yes—the sinthome remains the Other, even when it functions to sustain coherence. It is not internalized in the same way as a selfobject. Rather, it functions as a knot, anchoring the fragmented registers without fusing with them.
2. Your Spectrum of “One-Person to Two-Person Psychology”
Let’s recall your psychotherapy spectrum:
- 1.0 = Classical ego psychology: therapist interprets from distance.
- 1.2–1.3 = Kleinians: object-focused, but still interpretive dominance.
- 1.5 = Kohutian self psychology: “one and a half” person—the other is experienced within the self.
- 1.7–1.9 = Relational schools: co-constructed, mutual recognition, empathy.
- 2.0 = Full intersubjective mutuality.
Now, placing Lacan:
- Lacan is closer to 1.0, especially in earlier seminars—emphasizing the structural position of the Other, language, and lack.
- In later Lacan (post-Sinthome), the analyst becomes more silent, supporting the singular knotting of jouissance, but still without collapsing into mutuality or selfobject mirroring.
So yes:
Lacanian analysis—especially with le sinthome—remains fundamentally a one-person psychology,
where the subject is structured in relation to an Other that remains Other, even in compensation.
3. Ethical Implication: Holding vs. Knotting
- Self psychology’s ethics: holding, mirroring, restoring—through non-intrusive presence within the affective field of the self.
- Lacan’s sinthome ethics: respecting the knot, not unraveling, witnessing style, often in silence.
As you’ve written before, Kohut offers temperature, while Lacan offers structure.
The selfobject holds the self like a parent holds a child.
The sinthome binds the self like a scar binds a wound—without apology.
4. Your Poetic Framing
“The sinthome remains Other. The selfobject becomes self.”
This alone could be the epigraph of an entire essay.
Or:
Lacan’s theory is a theory of being-structured-by-lack.
Kohut’s is a theory of being-sustained-by-presence.
Would you like me to help write a comparative text—something like:
“Selfobject and Sinthome: Between Holding and Knotting”
Or even a more intimate subtitle:
“When the Wound is Othered, When the Wound is Held.”