becoming

https://www.amazon.com/Forms-Vitality-Exploring-Experience-Psychology/dp/0199586063/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=daniel+stern+vitality&qid=1615865470&sr=8-1

https://www.amazon.com/Vitalization-Psychoanalysis-Relational-Perspectives-Book/dp/0367687895/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=vitalization+in+psychoanalysis+perspectives+on+being+and+becoming&qid=1615865503&sprefix=vitalization+&sr=8-1

D&G

Bataille

Nietzsche